There's no such thing as perfect relationship.. there's an instance in my life when i asked someone why he is cheating his girlfriend then i got this answer..
"wla nmang perfect relationship e. and khit pa practice makes perfect di nman pwedeng ipractice yun! dko nman gusto gwin to sknya e. may mga bagay ln na kulang. mga bagay na dko mkita sknya.."
At first, I was really disappointed with his answer.
so i ask him..
"may kulang pla. bkt di mo sbhin sknya.. bkt kylngan sa iba mo pa hnapin?"
then he says..
"mhirap. pero pno pg ang hinahanap ko e ang pagkkusa nia? pgkkusang mrealize yun. kac kayong mga bbae lgi niung sinisisi yung la2ke. di nyo maicp na kya nmin nggwa yun e dhil kau dn ang dahilan."
when i heard it.. it strikes me within! although i'm not blaming him he's much defensive. (haha)
maybe he's right.. some girls thinks that guys ARE THE CHEATERS OF THE SOCIETY.. those experiences they encounter might be the source of their beliefs.
but in some circumstances in life me myself i admit I CHEATED i cheat in a way of loving someone i dnt really love, saying him that i love him even though i dont, doing things out of sincerity and the dishonesty i made.
i was cheated. and when i found it.. I WAS TOTALLY HURT.
i was just found myself longing and asking this..
"sn ba ko ng kulang? anung mali? dpa b ko enuf? do i really deserve this!"
yah. i admit at first it really hurts!
I BLAME MYSELF.
I CRY LIKE SOMEONES DIED.
but then after, i recall the conversation i had with my friend.
and i realize that in some part or another i was also the one who lead him to the path of unfaithfulness.
people have their own strength and weaknesses. and we should accept the fact that mistakes are unavoidable. its wrong to blame yourself for what you have done and say that you're too bad after doing it. mistakes are made for us to learn and forgiveness is made for us to change.
JUST WANNA SHARE THIS LEARNING EXPERIENCE :]
If sadness is what happens when you turn your anger inwards, hope is what happens when you turn your happiness, outwards. i still love him and that forgiveness doesn't mean i tolerate it but it only means that i still do believe in him.
"wla nmang perfect relationship e. and khit pa practice makes perfect di nman pwedeng ipractice yun! dko nman gusto gwin to sknya e. may mga bagay ln na kulang. mga bagay na dko mkita sknya.."
At first, I was really disappointed with his answer.
so i ask him..
"may kulang pla. bkt di mo sbhin sknya.. bkt kylngan sa iba mo pa hnapin?"
then he says..
"mhirap. pero pno pg ang hinahanap ko e ang pagkkusa nia? pgkkusang mrealize yun. kac kayong mga bbae lgi niung sinisisi yung la2ke. di nyo maicp na kya nmin nggwa yun e dhil kau dn ang dahilan."
when i heard it.. it strikes me within! although i'm not blaming him he's much defensive. (haha)
maybe he's right.. some girls thinks that guys ARE THE CHEATERS OF THE SOCIETY.. those experiences they encounter might be the source of their beliefs.
but in some circumstances in life me myself i admit I CHEATED i cheat in a way of loving someone i dnt really love, saying him that i love him even though i dont, doing things out of sincerity and the dishonesty i made.
i was cheated. and when i found it.. I WAS TOTALLY HURT.
i was just found myself longing and asking this..
"sn ba ko ng kulang? anung mali? dpa b ko enuf? do i really deserve this!"
yah. i admit at first it really hurts!
I BLAME MYSELF.
I CRY LIKE SOMEONES DIED.
I LUZ MYSELF.
but then after, i recall the conversation i had with my friend.
and i realize that in some part or another i was also the one who lead him to the path of unfaithfulness.
people have their own strength and weaknesses. and we should accept the fact that mistakes are unavoidable. its wrong to blame yourself for what you have done and say that you're too bad after doing it. mistakes are made for us to learn and forgiveness is made for us to change.
JUST WANNA SHARE THIS LEARNING EXPERIENCE :]
If sadness is what happens when you turn your anger inwards, hope is what happens when you turn your happiness, outwards. i still love him and that forgiveness doesn't mean i tolerate it but it only means that i still do believe in him.
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